Thursday, August 9, 2007

Jual's Surgery

OK - I'm going to make this quick, but I wanted to provide an update to those who haven't heard yet. Jual went in for surgery yesterday around 2:00pm. The doctor said it could take as much as 3.5 hours, but around 4:30, she came to the waiting room, where she found me sleeping with an ESPN magazine half covering my face. Way to play the role of the concerned husband, Alex.

After the Jual Harman entourage was finally gathered, the doctor told us that the surgery went well. After that, I pretty much ignored everything that she said. But here's what I remember Jual's mom telling Jual later. She was able to save most of the skin, which will make it easier for reconstruction later. She does not believe there was any spreading. The cancer had not spread into the chest muscle. Here are the unknowns that will be determined after she gets the pathologist report in a week or so. The margins (which is a more clear determinant for spreading), the size of the tumor, and the number of lymph nodes that the doctor removed.

The doctor was very pleased to more pleased that she expected on the pleased scale. She definitely earned her paycheck yesterday (Jual was her third surgery of the day).

I stayed with Jual in the hospital last night. She's doing remarkably well. She could have come home today (Thursday), but will stay one more night until Friday. She has some discomfort and very little pain.

Ryder is getting better every day. He is relying less on the oxygen, and will be taken off the CPAC today, which is the oxygen clips in his nose. He will be hooked up to something called a high-flow canulus to help him breathe, and once he adjusts to that, that will start feeding him through a bottle. His weight, vitals, test results are all outstanding, so we're still anticipating a Monday/Tuesday trip home.

All for now. Will provide another update tomorrow.

Alex

5 comments:

Michelle said...

Thanks for the updates Alex~
You have been wonderful support for your wife and have kept everyone so well informed! I am so happy to hear how well surgery went. Your wife is absolutely an amazing women...her strength and attitude is so inspiring. I wish her the best in a quick recovery, and I'm so glad to hear that little Ryder is getting stronger by they day. Reese is waiting for him :)
Love you guys,
Michelle

Meg said...

YEAH JUAL AND RYDER!!!! That is great news... AND CONGRATS TO ALEX, ELLA, AND PIERCE on the new arrival to the family! He is so good looking...must take after his mommy :)! Alex...if you guys need anything...call! We love ya!

Aimee said...

Huge hugs and congrats to all of the Harmans- (especially Jual and Ryder)!
I hope you have a quick recovery so you can get down to serious business- enjoying that new baby! :)
I'm saying my prayers that you continue to hear nothing but good news as the test results come back!
Lots of love,
Aimee

Marnie said...

Thank you so much for taking the time to update us! You all have been in my thoughts every day and I'm so happy that things have gone so well.
Hope everyone gets to come home soon. Prayers and positives go a long way!
Love you,
Marnie

Sharon said...

Thank you so much for the updates!! We can't even imagine what you all must be going through now, but want you to know that you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers!!!!! We, like you, believe that the Rainbow was your sign. Your spirit and love for each other will sustain you and God will guide you. Stay Strong and faithful! All our love,
Sharon, Chris, Scott and Tommy